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Hey, I'm Bethaney.

I help wives of husbands with ADHD end relationship chaos and find peace at home.

Support for neurotypical (translation: non-ADHD) wives of neurodivergent (ADHD) husbands who want to care for themselves and their families better.

When clients come to me, they're tired of putting on the mask, pretending to be on top of everything, juggling all the balls without dropping any, and all with a smile. But inside, behind closed doors, they're usually feeling:

Frustrated

With all the disorganization in their household.
Misunderstood

Because of the miscommunications in their marriage.
Overwhelmed

With the constant chaos surrounding their family.
Hopeless

That there's no way to end the pain.

That's where I come in.

We all want to feel peace and understanding in our marriage and our households!

What if you could have the life you dreamed of with your husband right now?

Feel love and respect in your marriage.

Improving empathy in your relationship with your ADHD husband means having mutual respect for each other.
Find peace in your household.

Reducing the confusion and chaos will lead to you feeling less stress in your daily life.
Create order in your daily routines.

Adding some strategy and organization to your lives makes all the difference.

That's what I help women do: Redefine the life they have into the one they've always wanted!

As your ADHD Coach, I will help you:

Understand and Be Understood

I will teach you more abouut ADHD as a disorder and how that impacts you (and your family) on a personal level.
Develop Mutual Respect

By understanding ADHD, I help women to separate their husband from the disorder, resulting in improved respect for each other.
Communicate with Ease

With mutual respect in the marriage, we'll adjust some communication skills and use them to strengthen your relationship with your ADHD husband.
Organize Successfully

I'll help you add some strategy into your daily life to provide more structure. This will ensure the household runs smoothly and productively. Now you can really get things done!
AND Take Care of Yourself Thoroughly!

Last, but certainly not least, self-care is a CRITICAL component of my work with women married to ADHD husbands. Gotta put that oxygen mask on yourself first, right?

Meet Your New Coach

Hi, I'm BETHANEY.

I've been married to my ADHD husband for over 11 years. I was always told that marriage was hard, but I didn't know how hard it could be with some ADHD sprinkled in! I've figured out how to make it work, and am here to share my secrets with you. The best part? Our relationship has gotten stronger and we work SO well together now...

This could be your story too!

With 10+ years as a therapist, I've worked with countless women struggling to bring peace and order to their households. I've treated so many men who have been diagnosed with ADHD and are struggling to understand and live with their symptoms. I've walked beside numerous couples in counseling on the brink of divorce due to the pain that is threatening to end them. All this experience with the frustration and desperation that can accompany ADHD has led me to dive deeper into this disorder and find a way through the chaos for the couples impacted.

Some fun facts about me:

I'm a Mom.

I have two awesome kids (Cooper and Finnley) and the coolest border doodle (Bucky).
I have Depression.

I was diagnosed with depression a few years back, and know the value of taking care of my own mental health. My husband and I even see the same psychiatrist! 🤭
I LOVE to read.

Audible is my best friend (because I'm always in the car).

All work with me begins with a free consultation!

This way you can ask me all your questions

AND we can get to know one another a bit more.

Book your consultation below.

Let's Chat!

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